Living with Facial PalsyThere are many websites describing facial palsy in "doctor-speak" but you are always left with the feeling that unless the Doctor actually "suffers" from facial palsy then how do they really know what it is like? Having had facial palsy since birth, I hope my website will help parents understand how to cope with facial paralysis in children and also that having this won't stop children achieving their dreams. March 1969, a facial presentation at birth leading to facial paralysisPregnancy is such a magical time and I know from personal experience what it is like to give birth to a child who has a "difference". I don't like to call facial palsy or facial paralysis a birth defect, because who is to say what makes us truly perfect? Don't people often look at conventionally beautiful people and think they are lacking because they are simply too perfect? I always think that a beautiful spirit is far more powerful than beauty on the outside. I came into this world in the spring of 1969 and I was born with facial palsy, in other words, congenital facial paralysis. I do believe that I am luckier than someone who has become a victim of Facial Palsy or Bell's Palsy in later life, and that is because I have only ever known the face that I was born with, and although sometimes I have my moments, on the whole I am fairly happy with it.
When I was born I was what was known as a "facial presentation" birth and I came out "face first" instead of "head first". Had I been born in today's more modern world, my mother would have had a caesarean and my facial paralysis would maybe never have occurred. The doctors were never quite sure what happened to my face, they said I was the first person in the UK to have this facial paralysis happen without there being a specific reason for it, and possibly in the world. I now know this wasn't the case, it was just extremely rare! Many people suffer from Bell's Palsy after head injury, stroke or for various other reasons, but there was no definite reason for this happening to me. If only we had had the internet back then, I didn't have a clue that I wasn't alone with this unique looking face which only smiled on one side! Was it only Facial Paralysis or in fact Cerebral Palsy?My early years were filled with numerous trips to Addenbrookes Hospital in Cambridge, UK, where I had to endure brain scans and various other tests. The doctors did not rule out cerebral palsy until I was about 10 years of age. My mother was so desperate to prove that I didn't have cerebral palsy that she pushed me to the limits developmentally, she wasn't going to let me be different to any other child the same age. Although the doctors eventually decided that I didn't have "cerebral palsy", I never really got any answers as to why this had happened. They decided that a nerve behind my ear must have been damaged when I came out "face first". I now know this is called cranial nerve damage, i.e. facial paralysis. So what is it about me that is so different? Well there are pros and cons of my situation so I will list them here. The downside to my Facial Palsy
The upside to my Facial Paralysis
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